Friday, 17 February 2012

TGIF... Or not?

Hey Style choicers! I'm just going to talk about how sometimes, life can seem stressful, and we're 'just getting by' until Friday, so we spend the whole week miserable until it hits Friday, and then on Sunday, we're miserable again because we have to start it all over again. This means that we're unhappy 260 days in a year, and thats more than half of the year. Isn't that depressing? But there are ways to always keep yourself positive! I mean, you're never going to have a year wear you have 365 (Or 366) good days in a year, but you want to be at least close!

1. Smile whenever you can. Sometimes, the only reason you're feeling so down is because you don't have anything making you feel great, but you might not have anything bringing you down either! If you just smile to yourself, or to someone else, no matter who they are, that'll put you in a better mood for the day.

2. Remind yourself how blessed you are. There are some people who don't have any water, any electricity, they don't have supportive people around them, they can't make themselves a good meal, but sometimes we still feel like we've been cheated in life. Sometimes we feel like something or someone is out to get us. We feel like everything in our lives is just bad, and that we are incapable of feeling happy, but if you're reading this, that alone shows me you have access to electricity, you have a roof over your head (Most likely) and thats more than so many people have.

3. When you wake up in the morning, have a motivation to get ready. It could be seeing your friends, it could be that you have drama class, it could be seeing your boyfriend, or it could even be having a delicious dinner to look forward to in the evening. Whatever it is, a motivation keeps you focused and happy all day long, and that'll help you through the day.

4. Make other people happy. Nobody is born without guilt, so I'm sure that if you spend your days scowling at people and putting others down, it pretty much does two things to you: It makes you feel powerful, and it makes you feel guilty, but sooner or later, the powerful feeling will fade away, and you'll just feel guilt. Guilt is one of the strongest feelings a human can have. If you put all your energy into doing favours instead of knocking people down, you'll feel happier, because the guilt that you felt before? That'll be gone, and your self-image will be raised a whole lot. That's because when you're happy, you're beautiful. When you're kind, you're beautiful. And when you're confident, you're beautiful.

So hopefully, after reading this, you'll know how to have 260 GOOD days instead of 260 BAD days. Sound like a good plan?

Thanks for reading! ☺

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